Workforce Archives - Oasis Institute https://www.oasisnet.org/category/workforce/ Lifelong Adventure Thu, 06 Feb 2020 17:49:34 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.2.2 Looking for and keeping a job at any age https://www.oasisnet.org/looking-for-and-keeping-a-job-at-any-age/ https://www.oasisnet.org/looking-for-and-keeping-a-job-at-any-age/#respond Wed, 02 Sep 2015 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2015/09/02/looking-for-and-keeping-a-job-at-any-age/ Older workers need to understand and embrace a new language--the language of technology--to be successful in today’s job market. Oasis Connections can help.

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Older adults are still working. And that’s not changing anytime soon.

According to a Pew Research Center study released in January 2014, the percentage of Americans ages 65 to 74 who are still in the workforce is expected to break the 30% mark in 2022. In the same year, it’s estimated that 67.5% of adults 55 to 64 will remain in the workforce.

The reasons people opt to continue working vary, but a recent article in U.S. News and World Report identifies four primary scenarios:

• They are still rebounding from the financial crisis during which their assets were lost.
• They are catching up from the extended period of low interest rates that reduced the value of savings.
• The age that people can claim full Social Security benefits is no longer 65 for anyone born after 1937.
• Longevity and good health allow older adults to work longer, providing more time to save for a shorter retirement.

Whatever the reason for the extended stay in the labor force, older adults often report challenges remaining relevant in their current jobs or having the skills to find and qualify for new employment.

“Technology and language tend to be the sticking points for mature workers,” says Frank Alaniz, Missouri Regional Workforce Liaison of the Missouri Job Center/SLATE American Job Center. “I tell my mature workshop participants, ‘It’s not how old you are, it’s about how up-to-date you appear.’ Many in our mature workforce have fantastic skills, but they still think it’s 1999. Managers are now 30-something and speak a new language. That language is technology, and older workers need to understand and embrace this new language and thought process to be successful in today’s job market,” says Alaniz.

He describes how different generations expect to receive messages in the workplace.

“It’s very simple,” he says. “We have the Millennials who tell me if it doesn’t show up on their phones, they will never see it. Next we have the Gen Xer’s who tell me, ‘email it to me, so I can read it.’ And then there are the Baby Boomers who say, ‘email it to me, so I can print it off to read it.’ It’s all about understanding the new terms: FAX now = Email; Email now = Text, etc. As a facilitator, I have to talk to three language groups: 20-somethings, 35 to 45-somethings and people 50+ in a way that everyone can understand.”

After translating the intergenerational code words for communicating in the professional world, the next critical step is understanding how to use the new technology effectively. Being relevant in today’s office means workers of all ages need to continually adapt to a rapidly evolving technology landscape. The most in demand technical skill for most employers is Microsoft Excel. Workers in today’s digital society may be tasked with one or all of the following technological job activities: understanding how to use the Google Drive or Microsoft Office Online; using smart phones or tablets to text and to order, track or sell merchandise or services; post and monitor social media channels; use PowerPoint; and manage and send digital images.

The Oasis Connections Program offers in-depth training designed specifically for adults 55+ who are looking to gain or improve computer skills required in today’s workplace. Connections courses cover a wide range of topics: very basic classes on use of computers, internet, smart phones and Tablets; use of Google and Microsoft Office business applications; and up to intermediate level Microsoft Word and PowerPoint. There are currently more than 35 courses including two focused on helping people with their job search: The Complete Job Search and Resumes and Cover Letters.

The Complete Job Search is about preparation and planning, identifying your interests and skills, and the online resources you need to succeed in finding a job in today’s environment. The course introduces students to the realities of online searches, email communication, social media networking, and cleaning up public social media accounts that might prove embarrassing as a job applicant. The course also includes two chapters on resumes.

Resumes and Cover Letters offers in-depth guidance on creating an effective resume and cover letters. Templates for both types of documents are available.

Oasis Connections is made possible with generous support from AT&T.

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Taking a little time from work to volunteer! https://www.oasisnet.org/taking-a-little-time-from-work-to-volunteer/ https://www.oasisnet.org/taking-a-little-time-from-work-to-volunteer/#respond Thu, 27 Aug 2015 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2015/08/27/taking-a-little-time-from-work-to-volunteer/ Debbie Schirmer explains how being CATCH Healthy Habits volunteers as part of the work day turned out to be a healthy treat for her and other Maritz employees.  

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They’re here! Hearing those words of excitement from children every Tuesday morning for eight weeks this summer made me feel really good about choosing to volunteer with Oasis through the Maritz Employee Community Engagement Program.

Oasis/Maritz volunteersI joined my colleagues to serve as volunteers with the Oasis CATCH Healthy Habits program, working with kindergarteners at Lakeside Children’s Academy in Valley Park, MO.

For an hour each week, the Oasis/Maritz team helped kids learn good eating and physical activity habits for a lifetime. During the project, we provided 1) hands-on nutrition lessons – stressing the importance of “GO, WHOA, SLOW” foods, 2) healthy snacks, and 3) fun, active games.

Each team member assumed a specific weekly task. I planned the healthy snacks. Maritz retiree Andi Hall and Jill Svejkosky, an Oasis volunteer and retired elementary school teacher, prepared the lesson plan. My colleague Patricia Roberts organized and led the games.

“Oasis provided me with a box of over 300 game ideas from which I could choose three to four games per visit,” said Patricia. “I even got some great ideas for games and healthy snacks to use with my great-nieces, Abigail (10) and the twins, Ellie and Caitie (6).”

Maritz Catch Healthy Habits KidsThrough the Maritz Employee Community Engagement Program, we have the opportunity to make a positive difference in the lives of the people in our community. Maritz has very generously offered to let us do that on their time. When we accept the challenge to give of our time and of ourselves to help make the community better, we end up bettering ourselves in the process. While it’s not about making US better, that’s a nice BONUS. Everyone wins!

Debbie Schirmer is Community Affairs Director at Maritz.

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Sharing volunteer passions with employer pays off https://www.oasisnet.org/sharing-volunteer-passions-with-employer-pays-off/ https://www.oasisnet.org/sharing-volunteer-passions-with-employer-pays-off/#respond Mon, 15 Sep 2014 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2014/09/15/sharing-volunteer-passions-with-employer-pays-off/ Oasis volunteer Mary Jo Summers loves her work with the Intergenerational Tutoring program so much that she thought her employer needed to know more. Her instincts were spot on.  

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Oasis volunteer Mary Jo Summers loves her work with the Intergenerational Tutoring program so much that she thought her employer needed to know more. Her instincts were spot on.

 
Tutoring allows me to help myself and the community. I get to make someone feel like they are the most important person and I feel important too.
 

When I discovered that my employer, Raven Industries, allows their employees to take time from their busy schedules each week to volunteer in the community, I jumped at the opportunity. I began by reaching out to my local school district and was referred to the Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring program. Shortly after, I received training and became an Oasis Tutor.

During my first year, I fell in love with the program. Stepping into the role of a tutor allows me to see life through the eyes of a child. I love listening to a child read a page in a book as she learns a new word, and I love seeing the smiles on children's faces when they achieve.

At one of the Oasis tutor training sessions, the school district coordinator mentioned that donations were needed to help support the tutoring program.  That made me think. Raven Industries is a great company.  They encourage volunteering and they donate to other organizations, so why not Oasis?

I contacted the human resources department to ask about how to request a donation.  I also contacted the Oasis development staff and they helped me write a letter to submit. In the end, my efforts paid off! Oasis was awarded a $1,000 gift from Raven Industries. It was a very easy process and I am glad I asked. I want to see Oasis grow to all states.  The tutoring program is such a great resource for schools.

For anyone wondering whether or not their company will support programs with which their employees are involved, stop wondering and ask.  You will be surprised how companies want to support their employees and the community!

And if you are interested in becoming a tutor, here's where you can find out more.

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Think no one sees your resume? You may be right. https://www.oasisnet.org/think-no-one-sees-your-resume-you-may-be-right/ https://www.oasisnet.org/think-no-one-sees-your-resume-you-may-be-right/#respond Thu, 21 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2014/08/21/think-no-one-sees-your-resume-you-may-be-right/ Traditional thought about resumes sometimes focuses on a great visual appearance, something that makes them look professional and appealing in hopes of making the person wading through the pile stop and look. The truth is, large companies use software to weed through thousands, even millions of resumes, and those fancy resumes can guarantee failure.

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Resume 
 
Large companies get millions of resumes each year. Even a mid-size firm can get tens of thousands. And many of these applicants, the majority according to some hiring experts, aren’t qualified applicants applying for a specific job. They are job seekers sending generic resumes to every company they can find. From a company’s viewpoint, they are a huge waste of time and resources. Hence the growth in software used to scan and extract data from resumes without human intervention.
 
Screening software scans a resume file electronically and attempts to parse and extract the content into useable data. Its job is to find the applicants name and put it into the database field for name, find and extract the job history, education, etc. and put all of that information into the correct database fields. A recruiter can then search the database, using keywords and selected parameters, for candidates qualified for a particular position. 
 
The problem is, traditional approaches to building a resume can confuse scanning software, leading to qualified applicants never being considered for a job opening.
 
It’s hard to find good data about what these software programs can actually handle. And there are lots of different vendors, so each will have their peculiarities. Some of what I found that “experts” said sounds pretty iffy, almost like urban legend, but we do know how databases work, and how to create simple documents that would tend to be easy for software to parse. So with that in mind, here are the most relevant tips I’ve found for creating a resume that won’t eliminate you for a silly reason:
  • Don’t use headers or footers. These areas can be harder for a scanner to parse.
  • Never put graphics, logos, or pictures in your resume.
  • Use a simple font that is available on any computer. Something like Arial.
  • Never use tables, graphs, Smart Art, or anything but simple text and bullet points.
  • Don’t use borders, shading, colors, columns or anything else that adds complexity to your file.
Using keywords that mimic the job posting (and corporate culture buzz words according to some) can help you to be found when a hirer is searching the database. Resumes should be customized, if possible, for real jobs, and match the criteria as closely as possible. Some additional tips:
  • Use relevant on-going education and volunteer work that might help with keyword identification.
  • Keep formatting simple, put things on separate lines defined by paragraphs when possible. Be consistent.
  • Check the company’s website and learn about their culture. Are there keywords that you can include that show your experience or education is in line with corporate values or priorities?

Should you put in more than one resume or job application?

The general consensus I’ve heard is yes. If possible, I’d do some checking with the company you are applying for. But with large companies, and HR folks that hire for specific departments, resumes and applications that are only used in conjunction with a particular job opening, it seems as though the answer is most often yes.

Public profiles

The same software that pulls the data from your resume often pulls data from your public profiles like LinkedIn and Facebook. It adds this data to your file, so expect it to be seen by a recruiter.

Document types

While some parsers claim to be able to extract data from nearly any kind of file, stick to a Word (DOC, DOCX) or PDF for the broadest possible reach.

Templates

While I love resume templates, I’d be sure that they didn’t have excess formatting that went beyond the guidelines here. They can be a good place to start, but be wary if they include data in headers or use other formatting that might confuse a scanner.
 
It’s got to be hard to write software to accurately scan every type and format of document that an employer might receive, so the bottom line is stay simple and use formats and fonts that reduce the complexity of your resume. At the same time remember that someone assigned to find qualified candidates will be programming the software to look for keywords that will return a short list of the most qualified candidates.
 

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Thinking outside the typical job-hunting box https://www.oasisnet.org/thinking-outside-the-typical-job-hunting-box/ https://www.oasisnet.org/thinking-outside-the-typical-job-hunting-box/#respond Thu, 17 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2014/07/17/thinking-outside-the-typical-job-hunting-box/ I may have to retire from my career job but that does not mean I am retiring from ever earning an income again. I have marketable skills that are valued in today’s workplace market. There are lots of income opportunities out there. I simply have to figure out how to turn these opportunity options into an income reality that works for me. 

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Just because I may have to retire from my career job does not mean that I am retiring from ever earning an income again. I have marketable skills that are valued in today’s workplace market. I keep an open mind and challenge myself to view every opportunity with a fresh new perspective. It’s not easy to think outside of my comfort zone. I’m working on getting better at it.
 
Mature Job SearchI will eventually find work—full or part-time, or even self-employment. There are lots of income opportunities out there. I simply have to figure out how to turn these opportunity options into an income reality that works for me. Here are some tips and strategies that have opened windows of opportunity I had not considered before:
  • Special projects—search out assignments or special projects that are understaffed or not yet assigned to anyone. This temporary option (funding or project reporting deadline) can help broaden networking opportunities. I’ve turned down one opportunity because the completion timeframe was too short for me to realistically finish the project on time. The good news is that I’m on their radar for future projects.
  • Program (position) counterpart in another region—I found several employment opportunities in other regions. The challenge is relocating and the drama you have to deal with when creating a new life in another region.
  • Passion income—Volunteer and fundraising projects/activities that I’ve been involved in for decades allow me to help community-dedicated programs and non-profit organizations that don’t have the funding to pay for staff to do what I do for them. I have developed a knack for begging for money for worthy causes. What I had not thought about before was including my services for a fee as part of the fundraising campaigns that I develop, coordinate, and host, for them. I simply didn’t associate “fun” with personal income. Ironically, some of these programs have offered to compensate me in the past. I will be accepting those offers from this point on.
As time goes on, I suspect it will get a lot easier to step outside of my comfort zone and become more open-minded to seizing opportunities. 
 
Other job resources for the experienced professional:
Encore careers – your second act!
Workforce 50 – for the experienced or those considering a career change

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Another pension income reality: I’m an income snob https://www.oasisnet.org/another-pension-income-reality-i%c2%92m-an-income-snob/ https://www.oasisnet.org/another-pension-income-reality-i%c2%92m-an-income-snob/#respond Tue, 08 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2014/07/08/another-pension-income-reality-i%c2%92m-an-income-snob/ It’s a relief to know that I can actually afford to retire now and be able to comfortably live and financially sustain my lifestyle. I will earn/generate more income in retirement than my current net take home pay. So what’s the problem?  Income social status! 

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I’m still trying to wrap my brain around my new money reality. Yes, it’s a relief to know that I can actually afford to retire now and be able to comfortably live and financially sustain my lifestyle. I will earn/generate more income in retirement than my current net take home pay. So what’s the problem? 
 
Income social status! 
 
It’s not easy to mentally accept and emotionally claim that I have surpassed and outgrown my original “income social status” goal. For the last 20 years I have been aggressively positioning my retirement portfolio. I signed up for and attended courses offered by my organization and other programs that taught what I was desperate to learn: how to be financially secure. Well, as time and my retirement portfolio have proven, I am an exceptional student.
 
Framed Sophie Tucker Quote about Girls and MoneyThe best ever advice or observation I have learned yet is the principles of a quote from American entertainer, Sophie Tucker, about girls and money:
 
“From birth to age 18, a girl needs good parents,
From 18 to 35 she needs good looks,
From 35 to 55 she needs a good personality, and
From 55 on she needs cash."
 
 
I keep this quote in a jeweled frame on my desk as a constant reminder and motivator. The frame reminds me that I can still enjoy my life while investing in the security of my financial future. There is nothing more civilized, dignified and comforting than knowing you can handle your business. 
 
However, being able to handle my financial business also meant crowing (albeit indirectly) about my income earning status. After being in the workforce for over 40 years, I have earned every penny of my middle/upper middle class income and socio-economic status. I don’t want to give that up! I hadn’t realized that my professional income earning identity was also tied to my social standing in society. This new awareness is yet another bruise to my already battered woman-of-independent-means ego. But if I want to survive and thrive from this experience, I must give up my “pride of income” mindset and move on.  
 
My name is Mary, and I’m in recovery from being an Income Snob.
 
Not sure what you'll need financially to retire? Here are some tools to help you calculate that.
 

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Are we talking about my retirement expectations or yours? https://www.oasisnet.org/are-we-talking-about-my-retirement-expectations-or-yours/ https://www.oasisnet.org/are-we-talking-about-my-retirement-expectations-or-yours/#respond Mon, 30 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2014/06/30/are-we-talking-about-my-retirement-expectations-or-yours/ I'm being blasted from colleagues and friends as “jumping ship” prematurely into retirement because I’m not using some pre-packaged presumed assumption of how I will be living my life when I retire from my current career job. Whose retirement is this, anyway?

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“You don’t have the years to retire”…remember you will need 70 – 80%, probably more, of your current income…”
 
“You are not being realistic—your medical expenses can wipe out your pension if you start drawing before you qualify for Medi-Cal…"
 
"You will regret going out now—you need to stay for at least 5 more years (until age 62) so that you can get a decent pension to live on…”
 
Whoa! Whoa! Whoa!!! Whose retirement is this, anyway?
 
Retirement I'm being blasted from colleagues and friends as “jumping ship” prematurely into retirement because I’m not using some pre-packaged presumed assumption of how I will be living my life when I retire from my current career job.
 
I’ve actually received intervention calls from those who think I’m headed to financial ruin if I decide to retire when our program is dissolved in July. Interventions! One such intervention turned into an all-out debate about pension percentage comparables. I had to end the conversation because she was in such a panic on my behalf I felt compelled to end her state of distress.
 
I don’t want to retire, yet…but I may have to if I’m not successful in finding an employment opportunity in the short time frame that we have been given. Here’s one of the key points I tried to share with my community circle—most of whom have committed to retiring in their 60s and 70s:
  • Retiring from this organization does not mean that I must immediately start drawing from my retirement pension. My retirement portfolio includes more than my organization’s pension.
  • In the last 20 years, especially the last five years, I have tried my best to seize every retirement savings opportunity presented to me. In addition to the hefty percentage being deducted from my paycheck every pay period by my employer for my retirement pension, I’ve tried to max out my Roth IRA contributions, when I could. For a few years I was able to max out in the organization’s supplemental savings programs and positioned my retirement portfolio on a solid foundation. 
  • Finally, I’ve worked long enough to earn enough quarters for Social Security; and I will get a respectable allowance when I apply for it. 
Could I have saved more for retirement? Absolutely!
 
Do you have enough to retire? Is Social Security enough? Some helpul resources:
 
(This post is part 1 in a three-part series on retirement from blogger Mary Calhoun. Watch for more!)
 
 
 
 
 

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Surviving the realities of job hunting https://www.oasisnet.org/surviving-the-realities-of-job-hunting/ https://www.oasisnet.org/surviving-the-realities-of-job-hunting/#respond Wed, 25 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2014/06/25/surviving-the-realities-of-job-hunting/ In these past few weeks, I have gone through an ego-bruising crash-course in job hunting 2014, and it has not been pretty.Today’s info-tech-centric culture means the job-hunting process has morphed into an endless series of click, select, edit, scan, download, save and submit buttons.

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In these past few weeks, I have gone through an ego-bruising crash-course in job hunting 2014, and it has not been pretty.
 
Job Search FrustrationMy biggest job hunt hurdle has been getting over how impersonal applying for a job has become. It has been virtually impossible to interact with another human being during the initial job inquiry stage.  Before applying for a job—filling out an application and submitting my resume–I’d like the chance to at least speak with someone to get a vibe for the work culture and the position.  You can learn a lot about an organization and the job in just a few minutes of carefully worded conversation. 
 
In today’s info-tech-centric culture the job-hunting process has morphed into an endless series of click, select, edit, scan, download, save and submit buttons.
 
First impressions are now qualified by first submissions (electronic/digital).  Some companies expressly state, “resumes accepted online only, resumes submitted by mail will not be considered” or, “no telephone inquiries, please."
 
What about the chance to check out the company culture or work environment before you officially apply for a position?  Strolling around a website does not give me the same work culture insight as actually physically walking around the building and engaging people in conversation. My “I’m lost…just trying to find the employment office” strategy doesn’t work online. Many such conversations and strolls in the past have helped me decide on whether or not I would fit in with an organization’s work culture.
 
I yearn for the days of expressing my enthusiasm through the tone of my voice and the spark of “I’m-the-one-you’ve-been-looking-for" in my eyes. Human interaction! I haven’t figured out how to project these verbal and interpersonal communications skills (body language) with printed words and the Submit button. I need more time! 
 
Click…
 
 
 
Over 50 – or any age – and job hunting? Some tips for the online search-and-apply:
Got a good resource for help with online applying? Tell us!
 
 
 
 

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Turning ageism on its age https://www.oasisnet.org/turning-ageism-on-its-age/ https://www.oasisnet.org/turning-ageism-on-its-age/#respond Tue, 03 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2014/06/03/turning-ageism-on-its-age/ I’ve been on a couple of interviews now and they have been most enlightening. Every one has been hosted by individuals decades younger and considerably less experienced. There have been some awkward moments and some engaging ones. Who knew that I could charm these young folks into seriously considering me to be a part of their team, working under their direction?

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I’ve been on a couple of interviews now and they have been most enlightening.  Every one has been hosted by individuals decades younger and considerably less experienced. There have been some awkward moments and some genuinely engaging moments that I will always remember with a smile.
 
All of these experiences referenced my age in some way or another—blatantly obvious or cautiously and curiously enquiring.  Being the perverse individual that I can be, I must say that I enjoyed watching them squirm uncomfortably or with noticeable relief when they realized that I was not offended or defensive in my responses.
 
Who knew that I could charm these young whippersnappers into seriously considering me to be a part of their team where I would be working under their direction?
 
I have replayed those interviews over and over in my mind trying to figure out what exactly did I do right. Here’s what I think happened:
  1. I went into those interviews thinking that my age was an advantage instead of a disadvantage.  My portfolio of experience took a few years to cultivate; it didn’t happen overnight.  Short term specific experience is sometimes less desirable than a vast array of long-term experience
  2. Focusing on my passion for learning helped them to get past any preconceived notion that I was hostile or hesitant about learning anything new.  Showing my progression of learning through the years and the skills acquired (both hard and soft skills examples) helped me to make an instant connection with their need for someone willing to learn or take on a project that no one else wanted
  3. My sincere willingness to take a pay cut. Before I even applied to these positions, I crunched my numbers. No matter how promising a job offer is, if you can’t afford to pay your bills, job satisfaction will be a farce. I think when one interviewer asked me if retirement was a consideration and I said without a moment’s hesitation, “Yes, it is” the interview turned in my favor. The other interviewer on the panel exclaimed, “Seriously?” I think that’s when they realized that I was not desperate for the job, and that I truly wanted to be a part of their team.
The learning never ends for this old chick.

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Neutralizing the naysayers https://www.oasisnet.org/neutralizing-the-naysayers/ https://www.oasisnet.org/neutralizing-the-naysayers/#respond Wed, 28 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2014/05/28/neutralizing-the-naysayers/ “Now you’ll see what the rest of us have been dealing with … let’s see how long you’ll be a confirmed practicing optimist now! … you’ve been living the high life, welcome to the real world!” I could go on, but you get the idea of what I’ve been bombarded with since I informed some of the people in my small world about my impending job loss.

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“Now you’ll see what the rest of us have been dealing with … let’s see how long you’ll be a confirmed practicing optimist now! … you’ve been living the high life (employed with the same organization for over 20 years/job security) well, welcome to the real world!”
 
I could go on, but you get the idea of what I’ve been bombarded with since I informed some of the people in my small world about my impending job loss. Truthfully, I never expected to be assaulted with the amount of doom and gloom that I’ve experienced … and so gleefully! 
 
Man StandingThe comments above were stated with relish and smug morbid satisfaction. Some of the comments were voiced with an almost celebratory cackle. My mouth was open with disbelief at their obvious enjoyment of my impending predicament. My response? Nothing. While I silently let them have their moment, I also retired them from my support circle. When they ask, “how’s the job search going?” I respond, “Interesting!” and immediately end the conversation and refuse to say anything more.
 
The first time I experienced one of the naysayers’ comments, I was caught off guard, unprepared to be mean-spiritedly slapped in the face with such negativity instead of encouraging support. After all, that is exactly what I had given them when they became unemployed—positive support in any way that they would allow me to be!
 
I know that they are concerned about my situation. However, it has also become quite apparent that they are smugly relieved to have company in the land of the unemployed. 
 
You know the old saying, “misery loves company.”  Well, I’m determined to broaden the company I currently keep.
 
Although I’ve narrowed my community circle, every now and then a troll is exposed and I have to exterminate the contaminated entity. However, most of us understand the importance of proactive positive reaction and focus!
 
It’s barely been two months since my “job security” was yanked out from under me, and I’ve been on emotionally positive steroids since. I’m determined to keep practicing Steven Covey’s 90/10 Principle (see my previous post) because it works!
 
My most important lesson learned already from this experience is: It is seldom important what is being said or who said it. What is important is I have a choice to either swallow it whole, or dump it in the garbage where it belongs and move on.
 

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