Tutoring Archives - Oasis Institute https://www.oasisnet.org/category/tutoring/ Lifelong Adventure Mon, 02 Mar 2020 16:05:18 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.2.2 February 5, 2020 is World Read Aloud Day!  Join the celebration! https://www.oasisnet.org/february-5-2020-is-world-read-aloud-day-join-the-celebration/ https://www.oasisnet.org/february-5-2020-is-world-read-aloud-day-join-the-celebration/#comments Wed, 05 Feb 2020 16:41:59 +0000 https://www.oasisnet.org/?p=4134 When was the last time you heard a story?  Hearing a story read aloud is a different experience than reading it to yourself.   A wonderful part of my position is reading, listening and reviewing children’s books for volunteers to utilize in the Oasis Tutoring program. In our office, we occasionally have “read aloud meetings” Read more...

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Mary reading on World Read Aloud DayWhen was the last time you heard a story?  Hearing a story read aloud is a different experience than reading it to yourself.   A wonderful part of my position is reading, listening and reviewing children’s books for volunteers to utilize in the Oasis Tutoring program.

In our office, we occasionally have “read aloud meetings” or as one of my colleagues like to say, “Story hour with Mary.”  I am excited about sharing the book because of the story, the illustrations and lessons.  My colleagues gather in my office and I read a few titles.   Depending on the story, these read aloud meetings can promote rich discussions about why or why not the book should become part of the Oasis Tutoring curriculum provided to partnering school districts.  They also bring laughter and joy to the day!  (I think everyone could use a little more laughter and joy.)

Sometimes, Oasis Tutoring Facilitators ask me to participate in their tutor enrichment meetings and I read aloud to Oasis Tutors.  Other times, school district staff introduces books to tutors and me by reading them aloud.  It is obvious Oasis Tutors enjoy this experience as much as I do.

Here is a short list of books I’ve heard or read aloud and enjoyed recently:

  • “Hanks’ Big Day, the story of a bug” by Evan Kuhlman & Chuck Groenink
  • “CeCe Loves Science” by Kimberly Derting and Shlli R. Johannes
  • “Where Oliver Fits” by Cole Atkinson
  • “I Am Human” by Susan Verde
  • “I Just Want to Say Good Night” by Rachel Isadora
  • “Saturday” by Oge Mora
  • “What Do You Do With An Idea?” by Kobi Yamada
  • “If Kids Ran the World” by Leo & Diane Dillion

National and St Louis Tutoring Team readingWhen Oasis Tutors read aloud to their students, the student hears new vocabulary, adds new concepts to their memories, understands sentence structure and gathers information about life experiences.

The more we read loud, the more fluent and expressive story tellers we become, making the story come alive. The fluency, inflection and expression demonstrated by the reader generates excitement and joy in reading for students.  Although the students Oasis Tutors work with probably do not realize it, hearing a book read aloud to them is a priceless gift.

Celebrate World Read Aloud Day with me.  All you need to do is select a book, find a friend and start reading.   I have already selected one of my favorite books to celebrate the day!

#WorldReadAloudDay

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January is National Mentoring Month https://www.oasisnet.org/january-is-national-tutoring-month/ https://www.oasisnet.org/january-is-national-tutoring-month/#comments Wed, 15 Jan 2020 22:15:43 +0000 https://www.oasisnet.org/?p=3921 Now, more than ever, having someone who cares enough to show up for a child who needs them is vitally important.  Oasis tutors are doing this every day in local schools, helping to guide children who need it towards a better future for themselves.  While their tangible impact can be measured in grades and Read more...

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Now, more than ever, having someone who cares enough to show up for a child who needs them is vitally important.  Oasis tutors are doing this every day in local schools, helping to guide children who need it towards a better future for themselves.  While their tangible impact can be measured in grades and achievements, their true success lies in the excitement and confidence seen in the students that they mentor.

El tutoring a childSometimes, the simplest lesson can ignite instant change.  One tutor told the following story, “I was teaching the word “lovable” to one of my boys. After defining the word, I used the sentence, “You are a very lovable person.” He looked at me with a shy grin and said, “I have never been called that before.” I lightly hugged his shoulders and said of course he was! Afterwards, he got the most confident set to his body and smile that I have seen all year.”

These small but important moments show just how impactful Oasis tutors are in the lives of the children they mentor.  Over the course of their sessions, a mentoring relationship forms that has a profound impact on the child’s life.  This impact goes beyond academics, it can be a relationship that propels the student forward in their understanding of their true potential.

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According to The National Mentoring Partnership, children who are struggling to stay on track but have a mentor are 55% more likely to enroll in college, 52% less likely to skip a day of school and 130% more likely to hold leadership positions later in life.  They also show increased self-confidence and self-esteem, improved behaviors and a better attitude towards school.

Oasis Tutoring uses mentoring to bridge a gap between generations that benefits both the student and the tutor and helps them to understand each other.

Simon tutoring a childTutors gain so much from the mentor/mentee relationship they form with their student as well.  The satisfaction of serving in their community along with the gratifying experience of seeing the child improve keeps tutors engaged in the world around them.  When asked about the most rewarding part of their tutoring experience, one tutor responded, “I was so delighted when I suggested to my student that we tell each other a story. I told her one and then she thought and thought about telling me one.  And then did!  It was a delightful story and I learned that my student has a creative bent.  Plus, I was delighted that she felt comfortable with me to tell me a story that she made up.”

#MentoringMonth #MentorIRL #ThankYourMentor #BAMmentor! #NationalMentoringMonth

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Oasis tutors are helping children stay on track with summer reading https://www.oasisnet.org/oasis-tutors-are-helping-children-stay-on-track-with-summer-reading/ https://www.oasisnet.org/oasis-tutors-are-helping-children-stay-on-track-with-summer-reading/#respond Fri, 26 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2019/07/26/oasis-tutors-are-helping-children-stay-on-track-with-summer-reading/ Encouraging kids to keep reading in the summer is critical to academic success. Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring is partnering with the St. Louis County Library to make this happen.

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Children in kindergarten through third grade are keeping their reading skills on track during the summer months with help from Hoener and 16 other Oasis tutors who raised their hands to volunteer in a partnership between the Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring program and St. Louis County Library. The pilot program started July 18 and will run through August 8, and is taking place at the Weber Road Branch and the Florissant Valley Branch.
Children participating in the free program work one-on-one for 30-minute sessions with older adults who serve as tutors with the Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring Program, the largest older adults tutoring program in the U.S. The sessions focus on reading and literacy skills. Each week, children participating in the program take home a free book to encourage reading after the tutoring session.

“We are delighted to be partnering with the St. Louis County Library to reach more children in the community,” says Mary Click, national director of Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring. “The tutors who have agreed to participate in this summer pilot are already dedicated to their work throughout the school year, and it is very encouraging that they are ready to help in the summer as well. Summer reading is key to helping students retain knowledge and skills they gained during the previous school year.”

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Library Director Kristen Sorth said, “The Intergenerational Tutoring program is a great addition to the Library’s effort to engage students throughout the summer. We look forward to partnering with Oasis to help get students ready for the new school year.”

Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring was launched in 1989. In 2018, more than 4,000 Oasis tutors helped 21,000 children in 682 schools across the country.

To find out more about the free summer reading program with the St. Louis County Library, call 314-994-3300 or visit www.slcl.org/events.

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Making a difference in many ways for many years https://www.oasisnet.org/making-a-difference-in-many-ways-for-many-years/ https://www.oasisnet.org/making-a-difference-in-many-ways-for-many-years/#respond Sun, 27 May 2018 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2018/05/27/making-a-difference-in-many-ways-for-many-years/ Scott Decker was a bright and inquisitive second grader who needed some one-on-one time with the right adult. Oasis tutor Jerry Swinehart was the man for the task.

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Oasis Tutor, Jerry Swinehart and Scott DeckerEveryone at Eagle Creek Elementary in Pike Township, Indiana, knew Scott Decker was a special kid.

The second grader was bright, inquisitive and a mechanical whiz who quickly became the school’s Mr. Fix-It for broken pencil sharpeners and jammed film projectors.  But Scott was also impatient, easily frustrated and struggled to fit in socially. School administrators and teachers agreed that one-on-one time with the right adult would benefit Scott greatly. And they knew just the person for the task, Indianapolis Oasis tutor Jerry Swinehart.

Having raised a son himself and spent time as a Cub Scout leader and docent at the Indianapolis Children’s Museum, Jerry is especially skilled at working with young boys. His quiet, nurturing manner and no-nonsense attitude were just what Scott needed.

The two quickly hit it off.  “Scotty and I are a lot alike,” Jerry says. “We both have a lot of interests and we’re very curious.”  Jerry engaged Scott’s mechanical mind with magnets, models and small projects to build or take apart. He used books about architecture to teach Scott different ways of learning.  And he taught Scott chess to help the boy tame his crippling frustration. “I never let him win,” Jerry notes. “I showed him his mistakes and he learned to play better by losing.”

With every project, Scott gained confidence and became more adept at working as a team. Jerry credits his partners at the school for creating an environment that allows all students to thrive. Like all Oasis tutors, Jerry combined what he learned through the program’s specialized, ongoing training and his own instincts on what would engage the little boy. “The teachers gave us permission to use whatever we needed from tools to the computer lab,” Jerry states. “For one hour each week, Scott received the undivided attention of a caring adult to explore whatever he was interested in.”

Putting something good into the world

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Kathleen Eicher, a volunteer tutor with San Antonio Oasis, took a similar approach with Hailey, a second-grader she tutored.

Kathleen quickly noticed that Hailey was very visual, responding to colors and pictures in the stories they read together.

She engaged her young friend with brightly illustrated books, including one called Extra Yarn about a little girl who knits sweaters for everyone and everything to brighten up her gloomy town. Kathleen even brought in some colorful yarn and taught Hailey to finger knit a scarf. Read more about their special bond.

“I love figuring out the mystery of these little people, what motivates them and what they need from me,” Kathleen says. “It seems to me that whenever we have befriended a child, increased their enthusiasm for learning or boosted the kindness quotient, we have put something good into the world.”

Teaching Life’s Lessons

That’s exactly how Scott, now a young man, feels about Jerry.

“My passions were different from everybody else, so it was really important to have someone to talk to who understood,” Scott says. “Mr. Swinehart challenged me when regular school didn’t.”

Scott’s mom, Peggy Decker, adds, “Jerry encouraged Scott and let him know that even though he was a kid, he had a lot to contribute and a lot to learn. That kept him motivated.”

Those lessons continue to form the foundation of Scott’s ongoing achievement.  He utilized his mechanical expertise to pursue studies in Heating and Air Conditioning (HVAC) at Pike High School before his 2017 graduation.  Last summer he proved his prowess by placing 4th in the nation for HVAC at the prestigious SkillsUSA competition, a rare achievement for a first-time competitor.

Today, he is a student at IVY Tech in the Paramedic and EMT program. And he continues to tinker.  Currently, Scott is working on a couple of inventions that will make chainsaws much safer.

Last fall, Oasis arranged for Jerry and Scott to meet and catch up. “It was great to see how far Scotty has come.” Jerry says. “I’ve tutored 30 youngsters in my 16 years with Oasis. It’s always special to see the impact that tutoring has had on their lives.”

Young Is As Young Thinks

But the kids aren’t the only winners in the tutoring relationship. “I’m 81 and if I only associated with people my age, I’d have an old person’s outlook,” Jerry notes. “Being around young people keeps my outlook and my attitude young.”

Oasis Tutor, Gerald Johnson

Gerald Johnson, a St. Louis Oasis tutor at McKelvey Elementary, echoes Jerry’s sentiment. “I get energy from being around kids,” Gerald explains. “I learn from them too, especially about technology and slang.  I don’t think as old as I am.”

Gerald is committed to recruiting more men of color to become tutors. “A lot of times students don’t have someone to talk with about certain things,” Gerald says. “They know they can ask me anything and I’ll get them an answer. I become more than a reading tutor; I am also a mentor and a friend.”

Excellence Yields Distinction for Oasis

The experiences of Jerry, Kathleen and Gerald are not unique. Across the nation 4,500 Oasis tutors in 20 cities improve the lives and learning of thousands of K-3 students each year. In the 2017 evaluation by partner schools, 100 percent of principals said Oasis tutors were a positive part of their school, while 96 percent of teachers reported improved confidence and self-confidence, and 93 percent saw improved academic performance.

It’s statistics like these that helped earn Oasis the 2017 Program of Distinction designation from Generations United. “We are one of only 32 programs since 2009 to achieve this status,” notes Jeanne Foster, Oasis national tutoring director.  “Oasis tutoring provides meaningful opportunities for both children and older adults while serving the entire community. Our volunteers are absolutely the best. This is an honor we should all be proud of.”

In further support of our volunteers, Oasis is partnering with the Generation to Generation campaign sponsored by Encore.org. Over the next five years, the campaign seeks to mobilize one million older adults to commit to working with children. Jeanne added, “With a retention rate of 80 percent among our Oasis tutors, we are set to lead the way in this campaign.”

Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring is made possible with support from a number of funders across the country. For a complete list of all Oasis partners and funders, click here.

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National Senior Corps Week is a great time to honor RSVP Oasis Tutors https://www.oasisnet.org/national-senior-corps-week-is-a-great-time-to-honor-rsvp-oasis-tutors/ https://www.oasisnet.org/national-senior-corps-week-is-a-great-time-to-honor-rsvp-oasis-tutors/#respond Thu, 03 May 2018 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2018/05/03/national-senior-corps-week-is-a-great-time-to-honor-rsvp-oasis-tutors/ Glenda Gauss was reluctant at first to try Oasis tutoring. Twelve years and 40 children later, she can't imagine not being part of the program.  

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Glenda Gauss, Oasis Tutor and childThose who know Glenda Gauss are surprised to learn that her Oasis tutoring journey began with some reluctance. She had some definite reservations because she never had children of her own and wasn’t terribly comfortable talking in front of people.

But her sister, Celena Hyde, an Oasis tutor as well, knew Glenda would be a perfect candidate to  share the joy of reading with a child in need.

“My sister dragged me kicking and screaming to become an Oasis tutor,” admits Glenda.  “I decided I was going to try it for one year. By the end of that year, I was in love. That was 12 years ago. Now I wouldn’t give it up for all the money in the world.”

Glenda has worked with more than 40 children as an Oasis tutor. Both she and her sister generally work with four students each year at Northwest School District’s House Springs Elementary School.

“If you’re going to be there for an hour and a half, you can just as easily give two hours,” she says. “When summer break comes around, I miss tutoring, and I always look forward to the fall when it’s time to start again.”

Although she is an Oasis tutoring veteran, Glenda recently signed up to participate in the program through RSVP. In 2014, The Oasis Institute received federal funding from the Corporation for National and Community Service (CNCS) to sponsor the Senior Corps RSVP program in St. Louis City, St. Louis County and St. Charles County. In 2017, Jefferson County was added to the Oasis grant portfolio.

Glenda and others participating in tutoring through RSVP have access to additional resources that enhance their tutoring experience. Senior Corps volunteers improve their lives through volunteering. A growing body of research points to mental and physical health benefits associated with volunteering, including lower mortality rates, increased strength and energy, decreased rates of depression and fewer physical limitations.

The week of April 29 – May 5 is celebrated as National Senior Corps Week and is an opportunity to honor Senior Corps RSVP volunteers.  The Oasis model provides a unique opportunity for Senior Corps volunteers to connect with children through the intergenerational volunteer programs and use their lifetime of skills and experience to make a difference.

Oasis has over 400 RSVP Tutors serving in 10 school districts and we are currently recruiting for the 2018-19 school year. Current tutors like Glenda continue to be our best recruiters.

“Just do it,” she says. “Just try it. It will give you more satisfaction than anything else you ever do!”

Find out more about Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring and RSVP, by visiting our website.

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Friendship and finger-knitting helped this mentor and student create success https://www.oasisnet.org/friendship-and-finger-knitting-helped-this-mentor-and-student-create-success/ https://www.oasisnet.org/friendship-and-finger-knitting-helped-this-mentor-and-student-create-success/#respond Thu, 01 Mar 2018 00:00:00 +0000 https://oasisnetwpdev.oasisnet.org/blog/2018/03/01/friendship-and-finger-knitting-helped-this-mentor-and-student-create-success/ Oasis tutor Kathleen Eicher came along at just the right time three years ago for a young girl who was struggling with reading and learning how to be a good friend.

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Three years ago Hailey S. was having a rough time in second grade. Her mother Kathy remembers how she struggled with reading.

Kathleen Eicher and Hailey

“We were reading together every night, but it was hard for her,” Kathy said. “I was concerned because I knew that if a child is not reading by third grade, it sets them up for more struggles.”

Hailey’s teacher felt she would benefit from some extra attention and arranged for her to work with Kathleen Eicher, a volunteer tutor from San Antonio Oasis. Kathleen brought a book to their first meeting and watched for strengths they could build on. Right away she saw how visual Hailey was.

“As we were reading together, Hailey pointed to an illustration and said, ‘This doesn’t make sense,’” Kathleen recalled. “She said ‘This girl looks like a baby when her grandmother puts her to bed, but when she comes down for breakfast she looks like an older child.’”

In their weekly one-on-one meetings, Kathleen noticed how Hailey paid attention to images and colors. She looked for books that were well illustrated to read together and they worked on colorful art projects.

Winston & GeorgeHailey was also learning how to be a good friend at the time, her mother recalled. One of the books Kathleen brought in appealed to Hailey’s visual sense with a story about friendship.

“It was a beautifully illustrated book called Winston & George,” Kathleen said. “We talked about all the colors and the friendship between the alligator and the alligator bird.“

Kathleen enjoys knitting and found a book called Extra Yarn, about a little girl who lives in a gloomy town. She shows imagination and kindness as she knits bright sweaters for herself, her dog, the townspeople, the trees, even the mailboxes. Kathleen brought in some variegated yarn and taught Hailey how to finger knit a scarf.

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The white board in the room where they met was another tool for building language experience and empathy. “Hailey drew circles for faces and added features indicating emotions – happy, surprised, angry and so on. She even included thought bubbles expressing very creatively what each face might be thinking.”

“I was so grateful that another adult was spending that extra time with Hailey every week,” Kathy says. “It gave her a chance to get away from the classroom pressures and just be and have fun with someone who really cared about her. It brought me a lot of comfort.”

“Hailey is doing much better now. She’s come a long way. Her test scores are up and her reading assessment looks good this year. She still finger-knits, has made little scarves for her friends and taught some of them how to knit. Hailey loved working with Miss Kathleen and still has the pictures she sent after the school year ended. I think this volunteer came along at just the right time. My daughter really needed that extra attention.”

Kathleen Eicher has continued to tutor and has worked with six children so far.

“I love figuring out the mystery of these little people, what motivates them and what they need from me. It seems to me that whenever we have befriended a child, increased their enthusiasm for learning or boosted the kindness quotient, we have put something good into the world.”

A program of distinction

Kathleen is one 4,500 volunteers nationwide working with the Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring program, which pairs children in grades K-3 who need support with older adults who have been trained to use a proven approach to literacy that emphasizes reading, talking and writing. The program is one of six intergenerational programs selected to receive the prestigious 2017 Generations United Programs of Distinction award.

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When he decided to volunteer as a tutor with the Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring program in 2013, Gerald Johnson knew that children would be getting a boost with their reading.

Oasis Tutor, Gerald JohnsonBut he has discovered that so much more happens when a child and a caring adult spend some time together, one-on-one.

“I learn from kids, and I get energy from being around them,” says Gerald. “As much as tutoring helps these kids with reading, it’s not all about reading. The kids are inquisitive, and a lot of times they don’t have someone they can talk to about certain things, so they ask me.”

From recruited to recruiting

Gerald learned about the program from his wife, Geraldine, who has been tutoring for eight years.

 “She said to me a couple of times, ‘this is something you ought to think about,’ and so I did.”  

Gerald now works on recruiting others into the program. In the mornings, he works as a courtesy driver for Dobbs Tire and Auto Centers.  As he was dropping off one of his customers recently, they passed McKelvey Elementary School, where Gerald volunteers. He talked about the tutoring program and now that person has become an Oasis tutor.

He is especially committed to recruiting more men into the tutoring program.

“Young boys and girls need to see more male figures that are caring and who are interested in their well-being.”

Gerald worked with four young boys last year and has three new young friends this year. A seasoned tutor, he knows how special these relationships can be.

“I become more than a reading tutor – I am also their mentor and their friend.”

A program of distinction

Gerald is one 4,500 volunteers nationwide working with the Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring program, which pairs children in grades K-3 who need support with older adults who have been trained to use a proven approach to literacy that emphasizes reading, talking and writing. The program is one of six intergenerational programs selected to receive the prestigious 2017 Generations United Programs of Distinction award.

“Achieving this recognition is a major accomplishment,” says Donna Butts, executive director of Generations United. “It says a program employs best practices and effectively engages the young and old while serving the surrounding community.”

Generations United Programs of Distinction LogoGenerations United launched the Program of Distinction designation in 2010 to recognize excellence while celebrating the rich diversity among intergenerational programs. Since then, 32 such programs have been selected. Programs of Distinction are selected based on evidence-based standards for quality programming, such as preparing participants, staff training, partner engagement and evaluation.

This is the second Program of Distinction designation received by Oasis. CATCH Healthy Habits, an evidence-based Oasis intergenerational health program, was named a Program of Distinction in 2014.

To learn more about Oasis tutoring, visit www.oasistutoring.org.

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Chelsea Shea and Estelle Rosen

After 20 years as an Oasis tutor, Estelle Rosen keeps at it for one good reason: she knows she’s needed.

She discovered this with the help of a little girl named Chelsea, who still cherishes their special bond after all these years.

It’s been a long time since Chelsea Shea was in the first grade. She is married now, and a recent college graduate with her sights set on being a teacher, but she does remember what it felt like to be a little girl struggling to do something that seemed so easy for everyone else: reading.

“I was so frustrated,” she recalls. “I couldn’t figure it out.”

The stumbling took Chelsea by surprise. She’d always loved being read to by adults, and kindergarten had been so fun. But when it came time to start trying to read on her own, things weren’t so fun anymore.

Then along came Mrs. Rosen.

A tutor with the Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring Program, Estelle Rosen, also known to many friends and family as Alene, came to Rose Acres Elementary School, in Maryland Heights, Missouri, once a week with one priority: spending time with Chelsea to get her up to speed on reading.

 Chelsea Shea jumping ropeLooking back, Chelsea is not sure she can pinpoint exactly the first day she and Estelle met, but she does remember certain days, certain moments from that school year. Success didn’t happen overnight. There were moments of frustration, which were met with a remedy that just about any child might need once in awhile.

“Mrs. Rosen always seemed to know when we needed a brain break,” recalls Chelsea. “One day, we just went outside and jumped rope. I was tickled pink.”

Eventually there was a breakthrough, and that moment, for Chelsea, will never be forgotten.

“I remember sitting there listening to Mrs. Rosen read a book, and then reading it aloud to myself. I remember feeling this sense of joy and thinking to myself, ‘I can read this book!’ I felt a sense of accomplishment. Reading didn’t feel as impossible as it had before.”

The book was Pancakes for Breakfast, by Tomie dePaola. “He is still one of my favorite children’s authors,” she says.

As the school year came to a close, Estelle’s mission was accomplished. Chelsea had gained the confidence she needed to keep progressing on her own. It was time to think about the next year and the next child. But Estelle knew Chelsea had changed her forever.

Along came Chelsea

Collection of pictures with Chelsea and Estelle By the time she met Chelsea, Estelle was already committed to tutoring, having worked with two other children.

“My first student was a little boy,” she says. “This worked out well because as the mother of three sons, I was familiar with boys. The second child was a blue-eyed blonde. She was so smart and funny.”

Then there was Chelsea.

“We just clicked. Chelsea was the child that demonstrated what I believe the ideal tutoring experience should be,” Estelle says. “This precious child really wanted to be with me, and often didn’t want to go back to the classroom. I would have to be the adult and insist, but I always said, ‘Chelsea, I am coming to back to see you next week.’ We really didn’t want to part.”

Like many Oasis tutors, Estelle was drawn to the program because she likes children and wanted to give something back by volunteering. She was not expecting to be on the receiving end of the relationship.

“It was hard for me to get up and down the stairs,” recalls Estelle. “I’ll never forget when Chelsea said to me, ‘Can I hold your hand?’ I encouraged her and she encouraged me. We formed such a wonderful friendship.”

A lasting impression

Chelsea went on to second grade, and Estelle to another student, but the two never lost touch.

“We just really had a connection,” says Chelsea. “That connection made all the difference. Mrs. Rosen has always felt like a second grandma to me. We communicated mostly through letters, and she would make me little gifts. My parents’ house was right behind the school, where she was still tutoring, and sometimes my mother would arrange for short little visits.”

Estelle Rogan and Chelsea Shea visiting with each otherEstelle was invited to milestones, like an honor society event and high school graduation, even Chelsea’s wedding. Estelle couldn’t make the ceremony, but Chelsea made sure to drop by, bringing a special wedding bouquet to celebrate the occasion with her special friend.

To both, the connection and the inclusion seem natural. These days, the two stay connected with frequent letters and regular phone calls, as Chelsea now lives in North Dakota with her husband. When they come home over the holidays, a visit to Estelle is always on the itinerary.

“It is my privilege to know such a beautiful young woman,” says Estelle. “She has brightened my life, and I think I have brightened hers.”

Chelsea graduated from Minot State University, in Minot, North Dakota, where she lives with her husband. She has a degree in elementary education, with a concentration in reading and kindergarten.

“I always felt that I was going to be a teacher, that I was called by God to work with kids in some way,” says Chelsea. “I would be happy even if I could impact just one child like Mrs. Rosen did for me—she taught me how to read!”

Seeing the connection between volunteering and health

Estelle did growing and changing of her own over time as well, perfecting her craft as a tutor.

“I never give up on a child. I try to discover topics that I think they will like. I’ve learned over the years how important it is to just listen to them.”

“Chelsea was very special,” she says. “My experience with this child motivated me to keep going with all the other children I have come to know, even though I didn’t always feel great some of the time. I bring my enthusiasm to work with each child and I get there and focus on them.”

Estelle Rogan and Chelsea SheaEstelle’s motivation to stay healthy and active, so that she could keep volunteering is not unique. In fact, a recent study published in Social Science and Medicine found that Americans 50+ who volunteered were more likely to get flu shots, mammograms and other health screenings than those who didn’t volunteer. Another study found older adults who volunteer have lower mortality rates and higher life satisfaction.

At 84, Estelle has no plans to stop tutoring anytime soon.

“I don’t think we ever outgrow the need to love someone and have that person love you back,” she says.

Estelle is one of nearly 5,000 Oasis tutors working in 19 U.S. cities today. Since 1989, Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring has reached more than 444,000 children. Inspiring more adults to get involved. To learn more, visit Oasisnet.org/Tutoring.

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Oasis is proud to partner with Generation to Generation, a national campaign that aims to mobilize one million adults age 50+ over the next five years to support young people. The campaign was launched in 2016 by Encore.org, a national nonprofit that advocates “second acts for the greater good.”

 

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Oasis tutor Betty Dotson has been reading good books with children for quite some time, but she recently had the opportunity to explore the meaning of a story a little more deeply with a second grader named Trenedy. Together, the two took a trip back in time, a history lesson came alive and the intergenerational nature of their relationship took on a whole new meaning.

My journal, Indiana Bicentennial Bi-Generational Project GraphicThey read “Following the Drinking Gourd,” a book by Jeanette Winter that tells the story of how slaves risked their lives to reach freedom by taking the Underground Railroad. And then Betty was able to share her own family’s rich history, including the true story of Lyles Station, an early African-American farming settlement in southwestern Indiana. Her family’s ties with slavery several generations back were something she was happy to share, as they created a journal that melded Trenedy’s writing and drawings with Betty’s family photos.

“Trenedy seemed most fascinated about the Underground Railroad, how people had to travel to freedom,” says Betty. “They didn’t bring a suitcase and had to live off what they could find to eat.”

More than 70 other tutors and their students also created journals throughout the year-long Bicentennial Bi-Generational Project, celebrating the 2016 Indiana Bicentennial. With funding from the Indiana Humanities and Hoover Family Foundation, the project provided tutors and students some interesting glimpses into the state’s history.

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“This project allowed us to purchase select books to integrate the study of U.S. and Indiana history, families and culture into the traditional Intergenerational Tutoring Program with great success,” says Mary Dorney, Executive Director of the Indianapolis Oasis. “The goal of the project was to help children and their tutors see that they and their families will be the threads of the fabric woven into our history another 100 years from now.”

More than 500 Oasis tutors are volunteering in the Indianapolis area, providing weekly tutoring throughout the school year to hundreds of children in grades K-3 who need additional support. Nationally, more than 5,000 tutors serve in 20 U.S. cities. For more information about Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring visit https://tutoring.oasisnet.org/.

 

Oasis is a foundation partner with Generation to Generation, a new national campaign that aims to mobilize one million adults age 50+ over the next five years to support young people. To learn more, visit http://generationtogeneration.org/.

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Thirty years in advertising armed retiree Martha Murphy with a skill that comes in pretty handy in her role as an Oasis tutor: Know your customer.

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“I think I’m an eight-year-old at heart,” says Murphy, who has gotten pretty good at relating to third graders by identifying common ground first thing. “It’s about bringing what we’re passionate about to the table, and using that to relate to kids. My kids know that I love dogs, so I use that as a conversation starter.”

The Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring program pairs children in grades K-3 who need support with older adults who have been trained to use a proven approach to literacy that emphasizes reading, talking and writing.

Murphy wasn’t sure she was right for the job in the beginning, but four years and seven third graders later, she knows she is right where she belongs. She comes to Remington School, in the suburban St. Louis Pattonville District, twice a week, ready to do the important work of getting children excited about coming to school and feeling like they can be successful.

“Every kid has strength, and if you can help them find that, it’s a good thing,” she says, pointing out that the whole experience isn’t so bad for the tutor, either. “Being an Oasis tutor is a pure, unadulterated joy of my life.”

An integral resource for schools

Dr. Mike Fulton, who serves as superintendent for the Pattonville School District, points out how integral Oasis tutors have become as a resource in the schools.

“Teachers can actually choose to participate with Oasis tutors. In our district, most do, and say they love  getting the help,” says Fulton. “They like that their students are getting some one-on-one help that they might not be getting anywhere else in their lives.”

As he makes rounds through the elementary schools,  the Oasis presence is evident, he observes.

“Each tutor knows their child, and that’s really neat to see,” he says.

Murphy is one of nearly 5,000 Oasis tutors working with children grades K-3 in 20 U.S. cities.

Finding more tutors, impacting more children – Generation to Generation

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Oasis has the opportunity to increase the number of tutors and children served substantially by participating as a founding partner with Generation to Generation, a new national campaign that aims to mobilize one million adults age 50+ over the next five years to support young people.

“Children today need our support more than ever,” says Jeanne Foster, Oasis National Tutoring Manager. “Older adults have abundant skills and life experience, as well as a desire to help.  Oasis has the largest older adult tutoring program in the U.S. and we look forward to sharing our experience bringing the generations together. And in the process, we hope to engage thousands more Oasis tutors to expand the number of children we serve.”

Oasis is one of more than 40 partner organizations joining forces to make the Generation to Generation goal a reality. The campaign was launched November 17 by Encore.org, a national nonprofit that advocates “second acts for the greater good.”

“This campaign is a new take on an enduring idea – that societies thrive most fully when older and younger people come together, not just in families but in the greater community,” Encore.org founder and CEO Marc Freedman said. “Shining examples of this impulse are emerging all over the country – oftentimes, hidden in plain sight. The campaign will help illuminate these bright spots and provide ways for many more to get involved.”

Generation to Generation and Oasis Tutoring were featured in a recent story on PBS’s NextAvenue.

How you can help

To learn more about becoming an Oasis tutor, visit Oasisnet.org/Tutoring.

Find out about other volunteer opportunities through GenerationToGeneration.org.

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